tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post451371344070945666..comments2023-11-14T19:36:55.984-08:00Comments on Middle Aged Dating: Mr. WrongCharmainehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17949679256019432906noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-10645760479005024222009-05-20T14:39:57.546-07:002009-05-20T14:39:57.546-07:00You're fortunate. I'm an emotional wreck and don'...You're fortunate. I'm an emotional wreck and don't apologize for it. I am the opposite of you in that I am aware that men can treat women badly and yet I still give them a chance! It's mostly because I know some fan-dam-tastic men and I keep hoping I will actually meet a single one! Or single fan-dam-tastic woman. Whichever these days! ;) <br /><br />I'm sure you hear this a lot, but, how are you still single?!?Simplicityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12482413614265803924noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-31756428892500446692009-05-20T13:11:42.163-07:002009-05-20T13:11:42.163-07:00I had to read this post a couple of times to get i...I had to read this post a couple of times to get it. But hey, I'm blond, okay?<br /><br />I still remember the summer when I was in the second grade. I was in the swimming pool with a bunch of friends, when for reasons I cannot remember, my 13 year old female babysitter scratched my sunburn.<br /><br />I hauled off and hit her pretty good!<br /><br />Later that evening, I received a stern lecture from my parents, that under <I>no</I> conditions was I to <I>ever</I> hit a girl. Then I got the spanking of my life!<br /><br />There have been more than a few times when I have had to interact with a woman who is rude, an ass, or threatening. But then that childhood memory rises to the surface, and I grit my teeth and turn the other cheek.<br /><br />It is not always easy being a southern gentleman.<br /><br />Regardless of what has been going on between you and Mr. Wrong, he should always, always treat you with respect and dignity as well as be concerned for your safety and well being.<br /><br />Paul<br /><br />Eat Well. Live Well.<br /><A HREF="http://www.purplegreenpops.com/" REL="nofollow">PurpleGreenPops.com</A>Paul Eilershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03443012393151401891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-56929093129873892822009-05-18T20:33:00.000-07:002009-05-18T20:33:00.000-07:00He's no man. He's a drama queen. Best to be rid of...He's no man. He's a drama queen. Best to be rid of him before he really drives you crazy.lisahgoldenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11158660223296807317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-26112433147169066832009-05-18T10:38:00.000-07:002009-05-18T10:38:00.000-07:00You've NEVER been badly treated before? OMG, I th...You've NEVER been badly treated before? OMG, I think that might truly be unique (a much overused word). Sorry it is happening to you though. <br /><br />I must admit that I have been badly treated by women but also that I have treated a woman badly (not the same one!). We are all human and don't always take the high road.Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10091933429533102339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-18637733997026312982009-05-18T09:41:00.000-07:002009-05-18T09:41:00.000-07:00Sorry to hear he ditched you like that a second ti...Sorry to hear he ditched you like that a second time...<br /><br />Well...it's one for the lesson books..yes there are men out there that are complete asses...we all really do no that..<br /><br />But then there are those that are very good men.<br /><br />I ran into a few asses before I decided I wasn't going to take it anymore and be treated so badly..and yes, I stopped looking to date..until I met my you know who!!<br /><br />And yes, Online dating does work sometimes....My oldest daughter met her now husband online...awesomeness.....and he's very, very good to her...<br /><br />Don't give up Charmaine..which I'm sure you won't..but leave that scumbag behind you!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-79470729643967509992009-05-18T05:01:00.000-07:002009-05-18T05:01:00.000-07:00Charmaine,
M loves you still!!
Just FYI!!!Charmaine,<br /><br />M loves you still!!<br /><br />Just FYI!!!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13012277904032798697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-52953339287452781562009-05-18T04:10:00.000-07:002009-05-18T04:10:00.000-07:00George Michael was alright, until I found out he w...George Michael was alright, until I found out he was friggin GAY; and like stalking in the bathroom GAY to boot! Sick, sick, sick...like your dates! Whats up wit dat? Dude ditched you TWICE in one lifetime? I think you are in need of a good spankin, because you must be a bad girl! Quit going on dates with loooo-zzzers! Maybe you can just go to Craigs list and get a good one that wont ditch you after dinner.webberpahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12289542614019972420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-21752108760360935932009-05-17T20:29:00.000-07:002009-05-17T20:29:00.000-07:00*sigh* Dammit Charm... you knew better. That do...*sigh* Dammit Charm... you knew better. That doesn't seem to help much though, does it.<br /><br />Take what you can from the experience... leave the rest.LLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01614843246640462976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-23139908875667363242009-05-17T18:16:00.000-07:002009-05-17T18:16:00.000-07:00dating completely sucks! you have to sift thru soo...dating completely sucks! you have to sift thru sooo many losers to get to a good guy. <br /><br />thank god he revealed himself (again) for the jerk he is and liberated you. <br /><br />charmaine, you fall down and keep getting back up. and i think your honesty is beyond brave, it's kick-ass and inspiring!<br /><br />;)<br /><br />~marianamastehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02170605437186135506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-81635534561031408492009-05-17T17:41:00.000-07:002009-05-17T17:41:00.000-07:00He walked out of the restaurant?! What a shit!
At...He walked out of the restaurant?! What a shit!<br />At least you found out early. Still, I'm with you -- when you're accustomed to being treated well, when you meet someone who treats you badly, it's almost unbelievable...<br /><br />PearlPearlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05261369905176088917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-29313510284228632132009-05-17T17:26:00.000-07:002009-05-17T17:26:00.000-07:00Yeah, I'm hitting 40 soon and just starting to lea...Yeah, I'm hitting 40 soon and just starting to learn about dealing with emotions. For the first time, I'm not just walking away with a "screw you" attitude. Really sucks to allow yourself the vunerability but it's also good......So I hear :)Neither Here Nor Therehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11856682221258717993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-70069249289093557132009-05-17T16:52:00.000-07:002009-05-17T16:52:00.000-07:00Men are jerks! But the guy I've been after for a w...Men are jerks! But the guy I've been after for a while (online dating rules!!!) actually phoned me ... the night before last. I think I'm in LURVE!!! LOLSweetPeaSurryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17193034370248526025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-91161001267802792562009-05-17T16:48:00.000-07:002009-05-17T16:48:00.000-07:00I am glad you feel liberated. He sounds like a rea...I am glad you feel liberated. He sounds like a real turd.Everyday Goddesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00486528297252417282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-10672370250447515862009-05-17T16:34:00.000-07:002009-05-17T16:34:00.000-07:00Poor baby. Come here, I'll cuddle you and then...o...Poor baby. Come here, I'll cuddle you and then...ok then we'll go out and get an ice cold champagne and put this behind us while we shop on Wilshire...ok honey? :)♥ Brajahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07693196044262677095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-86432848430170998742009-05-17T16:25:00.000-07:002009-05-17T16:25:00.000-07:00Its stunning--if in a painful way--when people rev...Its stunning--if in a painful way--when people reveal themselves like that. So completely.<br /><br />Unreal. <br /><br />What a dick.Ann Imighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01383249597505013239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-50493724378010509652009-05-17T16:16:00.000-07:002009-05-17T16:16:00.000-07:00Wow, I'm sorry that happened to you.
Yes it does ...Wow, I'm sorry that happened to you.<br /><br />Yes it does suck when you care for Mr. Wrong. I've been guilty of that.<br /><br />I'm glad that he ended up humiliating himself and helping liberate you in the process.Senoritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13075972193214414769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-38968553403867674622009-05-17T15:46:00.000-07:002009-05-17T15:46:00.000-07:00Jim,
I know. See, I had a problem. I had the uni...Jim,<br /><br />I know. See, I had a problem. I had the unique experience of never having been treated badly by a man before, ever. <br /><br />When you have been treated badly, you appreciate the good guys. <br /><br />But that was not my experience. I thought all men were good. <br /><br />You get to watch me making up for lost time. I'm glad I did it now that I'm older. In my youth I was way too sensitive...I never would have survived. <br /><br />All of this madness, all of the pain and whatever...it works itself out in the end. <br /><br />Bad massage? I'm thinking more like an upper cut to the chin.<br /><br />:-)Charmainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17949679256019432906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-591377131909428653.post-52928853831766021282009-05-17T15:02:00.000-07:002009-05-17T15:02:00.000-07:00WTF??? Um I am guessing you must have canceled on ...WTF??? Um I am guessing you must have canceled on the artist dude, Sharks at the QW..hmmmm the way I remember the Quiet Woman is the guys that frequent might want to do his hair or nail badly but...oh that's right he's bald.. well um. maybe they could give him a bad massage or something..JIMSIGHThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06342495591130676434noreply@blogger.com